Cat Aggressive Behavior

Overcoming Passive Aggressive Behavior

Sometimes the stress in life can feel overbearing, and it is hard to handle the problems that come our way because it can feel like too much to handle. If you don't deal with your problems one at a time, you can end up pushing them away or bottling them up inside yourself. As the problems increase and the other ones you have bottled up are not dealt with, the pressure increases and they can be taken out on other people. Passive aggressive behavior starts to occur when these problems are not sorted out and you begin to act out your frustrations on other people in ways which present angry behavior but behaviors which do not begin to solve the problems.

The first step to overcoming passive aggressive behavior is to find out where the anger inside of you is coming from and targeting it. Once you target this anger inside of you, you will then be able to ask yourself why you are angry about it. If you need to talk with someone about the anger you are feeling, you could talk to a therapist, or if you know that you need to speak with someone who you may be angry with, you can talk to them directly. Any way that you can find the source of your anger to deal with it is a good place to start if you find yourself being passive aggressive.

While you are on this soul search to find the source of your anger, you can also do a few things to stop passive aggressive behavior in it's tracks. If you find yourself being passive aggressive, try and be more open and honest with yourself in the moment to assess how you really feel. Certain people feel passive aggressive because they feel intimidated. If you are feeling intimidated sometimes that can lead to stress of which the source is hard to locate. If you are feeling stressed out because of a certain situation that isn't anyones fault and it is just stressful, take a moment to relax, breathe, and realize that. Once you realize that a certain situation feels stressful, you can stop putting blame on others who are not the cause of this stress and learn to relax.

Passive aggressive behavior can be overcome when you take the time to listen to what your mind is really trying to tell you by getting a handle on your stress and sorting out the problem at the source. This will help you to have more time for yourself because you will spend less time being angry and focusing your time on yourself rather than executing mindless activities that your anger is controlling.

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Should I be concerned about my cats aggressive behavior?
I currently own two cats. My male cat is about 2 years old and my female cat is around 9 months old. Both cats are fixed. Most of the time they are the best of friends!. They snuggle together and give each other baths. Some times they become VERY aggressive towards each other. The male usually initiates it and they end up biting, hissing and growling. He stands over her and makes a strange clicking noise with his mouth. Are they playing? should I be concerned about their behavior?. They are so cute when they snuggle!. Thank you for your time, I appreciate it!. They've been doing this ever since they met but it seems to have become worse since we spayed the female. I wasn't sure how old she was so she went into heat before I was able to get her fixed. The day she went into heat I ran her to a vet and got her spayed ASAP but ever since then their "fighting" has become more aggressive. Cuteness: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v308/amber581/SASSY/74ccfa8a.jpg Aggression: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v308/amber581/SASSY/1f7a559f.jpg

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giving Bach's rescue remedy: water or straight?
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